Wow, yes, you hit the heart of it: taking control of their sexiness does empower them over men, but over the most bass part of men, their animal lust. That’s what I’ve been trying to wrap my head around, the wrongness of this type of “feminism”, and why it is really “false feminism.” To narrowly control the worst part of men is not being out their best part. Well done and thank you for that key insight.