Micro-aggression is what whites call it, right. It’s a way to say, Opps, I said some white racist, but let’s not make a big deal of it. Black Americans are the ones that count since they are on the receiving end. So if they person receiving the aggression labels it ‘macro,’ ‘micro’, or just ‘normal’ white racist put down then we have have to leave it up to them as the person who received it, and not label it from the perspective of the person saying it, which is where the term ‘micro-aggression’ comes from.
Thanks much your insight here and sharing your experiences to stimulate thinking about this issue.